Your pelvic floor is a crucial, yet often overlooked, part of your body’s core structure. While many people associate pelvic floor exercises solely with pregnancy or ageing, maintaining strength in these muscles is vital for everyone, regardless of gender or age.
A strong pelvic floor supports your bladder, bowel, and reproductive organs, contributing significantly to your overall quality of life. Conversely, weakness in this area can lead to uncomfortable and often embarrassing issues, such as urinary incontinence or pelvic organ prolapse.
Fortunately, these muscles are just like any other muscle group in the body: they can be strengthened with the right training programme. This guide explores the science behind the pelvic floor, the causes of weakness, and provides a comprehensive, step-by-step routine to help you regain control and confidence.
Overview: Understanding the Pelvic Floor
The pelvic floor consists of a layer of muscles and connective tissues that stretch like a hammock from the tailbone (coccyx) at the back to the pubic bone at the front. These muscles act as a sling, supporting the pelvic organs, which include the bladder and bowel in men and women, and the uterus in women.
The primary functions of the pelvic floor include:
- Organ Support: Keeping the bladder, uterus, and bowel in their correct positions.
- Sphincter Control: Assisting the muscles that wrap around the urethra and anus to prevent leakage of urine or faeces.
- Sexual Function: Contributing to arousal and orgasm intensity.
- Core Stability: Working in tandem with the abdominal and back muscles to support the spine.
When these muscles function correctly, you have full control over when you empty your bladder and bowels. However, when they become weakened or stretched, that control is compromised. According to the NHS, pelvic floor exercises are the first line of defence against stress incontinence.
Causes and Risk Factors for Weakness
Understanding why the pelvic floor weakens is the first step toward effective management. It is rarely the result of a single event, but rather a combination of factors that place chronic strain on the pelvic sling.
Pregnancy and Childbirth
This is the most common cause of pelvic floor weakness in women. During pregnancy, the growing baby places immense pressure on the pelvic floor. Furthermore, hormonal changes—specifically the release of relaxin—soften the tissues to prepare for birth. Vaginal delivery can stretch and sometimes tear these muscles.
Ageing and Menopause
As we age, all muscles in our bodies tend to lose mass and tone. For women, the drop in oestrogen levels during menopause causes the pelvic tissues to thin and become less elastic, making pelvic floor exercises essential for healthy ageing.
High-Impact Exercise and Heavy Lifting
While exercise is generally healthy, consistent high-impact activities (such as jumping or running) or heavy weightlifting without proper form can create excessive downward pressure on the pelvic floor. Over time, this repetitive strain can lead to dysfunction.
Chronic Constipation and Coughing
Straining to empty your bowels due to chronic constipation places significant force on the pelvic muscles. Similarly, chronic respiratory conditions that cause persistent coughing (such as asthma or smoker’s cough) act as a repetitive trauma to the pelvic floor.
Surgery and Prostate Health
In men, prostate surgery is a leading cause of incontinence. Removing the prostate can damage the sphincter muscles, making pelvic floor rehabilitation critical for recovery. Harvard Health notes that men who practice these exercises often recover bladder control faster after prostatectomy.

Treatment and Management: A Step-by-Step Guide
The gold standard for strengthening these muscles is a regimen of pelvic floor exercises, often referred to as Kegels. The beauty of these exercises is that they can be done anywhere, at any time, without anyone knowing.
However, technique is paramount. Doing them incorrectly can actually exacerbate the problem.
Step 1: Finding the Right Muscles
Before you begin a repetition, you must ensure you are engaging the correct muscle group.
- The Stop-Start Test: Next time you are urinating, try to stop the flow of urine mid-stream, then allow it to restart. The muscles you use to do this are your pelvic floor muscles. Note: Do not do this regularly as an exercise, as it can lead to incomplete bladder emptying or urinary infections.
- The Visual Check: You can use a hand-held mirror to observe the area between your legs. When you squeeze the muscles, you should see the perineum (the area between the vagina/scrotum and anus) lift upwards and inwards.
Step 2: The “Squeeze and Lift”
Once you have identified the muscles, sit or lie down in a comfortable position. Relax your thighs, buttocks, and abdomen.
- Inhale deeply to relax.
- Exhale and gently tighten the muscles around your back passage (anus) as if trying to stop wind.
- Simultaneously, bring that sensation forward to the front passage (urethra) as if stopping urine.
- Lift these muscles inwards and upwards towards your navel.
Step 3: Slow Contractions (For Endurance)
These exercises target the slow-twitch muscle fibres, which are responsible for holding urine throughout the day.
- Perform the “Squeeze and Lift” described above.
- Hold the tension for a count of 5 to 10 seconds.
- Do not hold your breath; breathe normally throughout the hold.
- Release the tension slowly and rest for 5 seconds.
- Repeat this 10 times.
Step 4: Fast Contractions (The “Knack”)
These exercises target fast-twitch fibres, which react quickly to prevent leaks when you cough or sneeze.
- Squeeze and lift the pelvic floor muscles as hard and fast as you can.
- Hold for just 1 second.
- Release instantly.
- Repeat this 10 times in rapid succession.
Recommended Routine
Aim to perform this cycle (10 slow, 10 fast) three times a day. Consistency is key. You may not notice immediate results, but studies cited by the Cochrane Library suggest significant improvement typically occurs within 3 to 6 months of consistent training.
Practical Tips for Success
Adopting a new exercise habit can be difficult. To ensure you stick to your programme and perform the movements correctly, consider the following practical advice.
Do’s and Don’ts Checklist
| Do | Don’t |
|---|---|
| Do breathe naturally throughout the exercises. | Don’t hold your breath or clench your jaw. |
| Do relax your glutes and thighs. | Don’t squeeze your buttocks (glutes) tight. |
| Do focus on the sensation of “letting go” between reps. | Don’t push downwards (bearing down); always lift up. |
| Do set reminders on your phone. | Don’t over-train; muscle fatigue can increase leakage. |
Incorporating Into Daily Life
Associating your exercises with a daily habit is the best way to ensure consistency. This is often called “habit stacking.”
- The Kettle Routine: Do a set every time you wait for the kettle to boil.
- Red Lights: Squeeze and lift while waiting at traffic lights.
- Commercial Breaks: Use TV advert breaks as a dedicated workout time.
The “Knack” Technique
One of the most practical applications of pelvic floor exercises is using “The Knack.” This involves actively squeezing your pelvic floor muscles immediately before you cough, sneeze, laugh, or lift a heavy object. This pre-contraction braces the pelvic floor against the sudden increase in intra-abdominal pressure, significantly reducing the likelihood of a leak.
Diet and Lifestyle
Exercise alone is part of the puzzle. You must also manage the pressure placed on the pelvic floor.
- Maintain a healthy weight: Excess weight puts continuous strain on pelvic muscles.
- Avoid constipation: Eat plenty of fibre and stay hydrated to keep stools soft, reducing the need to strain. The Bladder & Bowel Community offers excellent resources on diet for bladder health.
When to See a Professional
If you have been performing these exercises consistently for three months without improvement, or if you are unsure if you are doing them correctly, it is vital to seek professional help. Many people accidentally push down instead of lifting up, which can worsen prolapse issues.
A specialized physiotherapist can provide a personalised assessment. They may use techniques such as:
- Biofeedback: Using small sensors to visually show you on a screen how well your muscles are working.
- Electrical Stimulation: Using a small, painless electrical current to help stimulate the muscles and teach you the sensation of a contraction.
- Manual Therapy: Hands-on techniques to release tight muscles or improve alignment.
Clinical guidelines from NICE (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence) recommend supervised pelvic floor muscle training as a primary treatment for urinary incontinence.
Additionally, conditions like a hypertonic (too tight) pelvic floor require different treatment. In these cases, doing Kegels can actually cause pain. If you experience pelvic pain, consult a doctor immediately. For more information on pelvic floor disorders, Healthline provides a detailed medical overview.
The Bottom Line
Pelvic floor exercises are a low-impact, highly effective way to manage and prevent bladder and bowel issues. Whether you are recovering from childbirth, preparing for prostate surgery, or simply wanting to maintain core strength as you age, these exercises are an investment in your future independence and confidence.
Remember that these muscles are hidden, so it can be difficult to know if you are training them correctly. Take the time to locate them properly, start with a manageable routine, and be patient with your progress. It took time for the muscles to weaken, and it will take time for them to strengthen again.
If you are struggling, do not suffer in silence. Help is available from specialist physiotherapists and organisations like the Continence Foundation of Australia or The Pelvic Floor Society. Taking control of your pelvic health is one of the most proactive steps you can take for your overall wellbeing.
Start your journey today—your future self will thank you.
